In commemoration of 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence worldwide, and as experienced by womxn and children, you may see people wearing purple, orange or black ribbons alongside many advocacy protests raising awareness about GBV and Femicide (GBV-F) as a psychosocial pandemic. Let’s explore GBV-F Mental Health Support Services in South Africa.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), women tend to either be undertreated or overtreated, especially women who are BIPOC, which also includes poor access to quality mental health support and care through psychiatry, counselling and psychotherapy. WHO further state that, “One in three women globally, around 736 million, have been subjected to physical or sexual violence in their lifetimes, according to new analysis by the World Health Organization (WHO). One in four women aged between 15 and 24 years will have already experienced violence by an intimate partner by the time they reach their mid-twenties”.
Surviving GBV-F
Personally, as a survivor of almost all forms of GBV and femicide in my family and in the village, township and metropolitan city of Johannesburg that I have called home, as well as being as psychologist by professional training, practice and activism, I have come to observe the many stigmas that are associated with being a survivor of GBV. One of those stigmas is this judgmental assumption that womxn or children are to blame for putting themselves in situations or positions that resulted in them being abused. This is not true considering that GBV-F can be seen as a violation of human rights and is a majorly destructive, hurtful form of gaslighting and victim bashing that takes away from the mental health of GBV survivors. At the heart of the stigma, seems to be an underestimation of how societally widespread GBV and femicide truly is in South Africa and worldwide.
The Reality of GBV-F
Another reality to grapple with during this year’s 16 days of Activism Against Gender-based Violence is that many womxn and children do not report the ways in which their human rights have been violated through GBV-F due to fear of further victimization, abuse through societal judgment, some desensitized police and justice system case workers as well as inaccessible mental health support services.
That being said, it is not often that you hear enough men and friendship groups of boys in our population also considering themselves as survivors of GBV considering that it is a societal social ill and wicked problem that affects every single one of us directly or indirectly. GBV-F is not a reality that woman alone, or any child, should have to face on their own as they navigate through life work and their future; not when so many survivors like myself have a true story to tell and a desire to be believed and supported.
Ashley shared more of her experience here.
GBV-F and Mental Health Support
Whilst we should not be defined by our past traumatic experiences, however we can’t deny that trauma negatively impacts our mental health as human beings. Sadly, in our African context access to mental health professionals is low which makes it important provide free mental health resources and services in all communities so that every GBV survivor be it a women, child or family can have a psychologically safe space that allows for feeling heard, seen and believed. Psychiatrist, Prof Gabor Mate has insightfully described trauma as follows, “The essence of trauma is disconnection…so the real question is: How did we get separated and how do we reconnect?”. Connection as part of the healing journey may be reconnecting with ourselves, with others, the earth, with our emotions, thoughts and bodily experiences as well as spiritually within our souls.
Brene Brown has shared “Stillness is not about focusing on nothingness; it’s about creating a clearing. It’s opening up an emotionally clutter-free space and allowing ourselves to feel and think and dream and question.” With the right mental health support, heal we can and live we must, as that is the human right of all women, children and communities affected by GBV and femicide.
Free Mental Health Support Services in South Africa
Below is a list of free mental health support services as well as clarity of how to access mental health support through the public health care and paid private health care systems in South Africa
Free Mental Health and Counselling Services in South Africa
The Counselling Hub (SACAP Foundation)
Website: https://www.counsellinghub.org.za/
Email: [email protected]
Call:021 462 3902 (for bookings/advice)
WhatsApp: 067 235 0019 (for bookings)
MASIVIWE
Counselling and Healing Guidance
Website: https://masiviwe.org.za/
Facebook: Masiviwe
Call: 087 821 1109
Befrienders - South Africa
I CHOOSE LIFE - Helpline
Free mental health containment, assessment and counselling referral services
Call/WhatsApp: 072 790 0506
Maybelline BraveTogether
SADAG partnered with Maybelline and launched the #BraveTogether dedicated WhatsApp counselling chat line available 7 days a week, from 8am-5pm.
WhatsApp: 087 163 2030
CIPLA Chat Line
Free Counselling Service
Helpline: 0800 456 789
WhatsApp: 076 882 2775
SMS: 31393
Humanitas
Free Counselling Service
Call: 071 247 6656 / 082 541 4357
I AM YOUTH
Free Youth Counselling Service
Website: www.iamyouth.co.za
WhatsApp/SMS/Call: 076 037 6345
Call: 076 900 7151 (To report child abuse/neglect)
PHOLA Psychosocial Organisation
Counselling and Support Training
Website: https://phola.org/
Email: [email protected]
Call: 011 791 9254
WhatsApp: 064 529 0855
TSHOLETSANANG_Afrika
Founder: MPHO ASHLEY MOTENE
Psychologist HPCSA: PS0130826, offering FREE mental health awareness and support resources – GBV & Femicide Survivors’ Mental Health & Grief Help:
Tips, professional containment & counselling referral to the suitable mental health professional as per HPCSA psychology categories, as you process, grief, hope, heal & live
TikTok: @gbvgriefmentalhealthhelp
Department of Social Development (Report abuse)
Call: 0800 428 428
Send ‘Please Call Me’: *120*7867# or
SMS the word “help” to: 31531 (for people living with disability)
The South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG)
- Free Basic counselling support
- Suicide Crisis Line
Website: https://www.sadag.org/
Contact a Counsellor: complete this form
Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0800 567 567
Substance Abuse Helpline
Call: 0800 12 13 14
South African Responsible Gambling Foundation Helpline
Call: 0800 006 008
Email: [email protected]
South African National Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence (SANCA)
Website: https://www.sancanational.info/our-affiliates
WhatsApp: 076 535 1701
Women for Change NPO
Honours murdered women in South Africa on social media & offer support for families of women murdered via GBV/Femicide
Website: https://womenforchange.co.za/
Email: [email protected]
Facebook: Women For Change
Instagram: @womenforchangesa
TikTok: @womenforchange.sa
POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse) Support
Website: https://www.powa.co.za/
Call: 011 642 4345
Kwanele Foundation
SA Federation for Mental Health: Advice & Advocacy
Call: 011 781 1852
Families South Africa - FAMSA
Facebook: Families South Africa – FAMSA
Call: 072 213 3831
Lifeline SA Telephonic Counselling
Call: 011 422 4242 / 0861 322 322
TEARS Foundation
Survivors of sexual abuse/molestation
Dial: *134*7355#
Call: 010 590 5920
Mental Healthcare Services through Public Hospitals
I have a mental health struggle
- Use free services
- Lean on the counsellors in your local church/friends
Visit a GP doctor
- Explain your mental health struggles
- Request a referral letter to public hospital psychiatric ward/clinic
Go to the public hospital for psychotheraphy
- Once referred, you will be given appointments for your regular visits
- You will talk to a counsellor/social worker/psychologist/psychiatrist doctor
Mental Healthcare Services through Private Hospitals
To access and pay registered counsellors, psychologist and psychiatrists (Approx R800+)
Medical aids offer 15 free psychotherapy sessions every year
- Call and ask about FREE PMB benefit
- Allows you to see a psychologist for talk therapy
- Or a psychiatrists for therapy and medication: Stress, Suicide, Depression, Schizophrenia, Mood Disorders, Anxiety, Loss & Grief, Bipolar, Post-traumatic Stress, GBV coping, Decision-making
Psychology Today - Find Psychologists & Counsellors
Website: https://www.psychologytoday.com/za
Netcare Akeso Psychiatric Hospital
Gauteng, KwaZulu-Natal, Mpumalanga, Eastern Cape and Western Cape
(Booked into ward 72hrs-3 weeks/Outpatient sessions e.g. weekly/once a month)
Call 24-hour crisis line: 086 143 5787 for Dr consultation/admission
LifePath Health Group - Psychiatric Hospital Helpline
Website: https://www.lifepathgroup.co.za/
Call or WhatsApp: 072 7900 506 for Dr consultation/admission
Vista Clinic - Psychiatric Hospital
Centurion
Call: 012 664 0222 for Dr consultation/admission